There’s a saying in the animal world: “You choose a dog, but a cat chooses you.” Indeed, the decision to bring one into your life is a magical one, often sparked by the sight of a tiny, purring kitten or the soulful gaze of a majestic shelter cat. However, this isn’t just an emotional decision; rather, it’s a job interview where you are the applicant. You are, in effect,auditioning for the role of head-servant, can-opener-in-chief, and provider of warm laps. Therefore, asking the right questions—of the shelter, and even more importantly, of yourself—is the only way to ensure you pass the interview and begin a beautiful, lifelong partnership. This guide, consequently, is your cheat sheet.
Part 1: The Questions to Ask the Shelter or Rescue
This is about understanding the candidate’s background and personality.
1. What is This Cat’s History?
Key Questions: Where did this it come from? Was it a stray? A surrender from a previous home? If so, do you know why? Was it born in the shelter?
Why it Matters: A cat surrendered for “litter box issues” might actually have a medical problem or a deep-seated stress trigger. Furthermore, one that has only ever lived in a shelter will need more time to acclimate to a home compared to one that is already used to living with people
2. What is Their True Personality? (Kitten vs. Adult)w
Key Questions: Is it a ‘lap cat’ or more of an independent ‘cat’s cat’? Are they playful and high-energy, or a calm couch potato? Are they confident and social, or shy and reserved?
The Adult Advantage: With an adult, what you see is what you get. The shy one in the corner will likely remain a quiet, gentle soul.
The Kitten Mystery: A kitten is a “mystery box.” Their adorable, playful personality as a baby is no guarantee of their adult temperament.
3. How Are They With Other People and Animals?
Key Questions: How does it react to strangers? Have they been around children? If so, what ages? Have they lived with other cats? What about dogs?
Why it Matters: One that has always been an “only child” may struggle to adapt to a multi-cat household. If you have a dog, you need to know if it has any prior positive or negative experiences with canines.
4. What is Their Medical History?
Key Questions: Is it spayed or neutered? Are they up-to-date on vaccinations? Have they been tested for FIV (Feline Immunodeficiency Virus) and FeLV (Feline Leukemia Virus)? Are they on any medications or special diets?
Why it Matters: Testing for FIV and FeLV is crucial, especially if you have other cats, as these viruses can be transmitted. Knowing about chronic issues prepares you for the financial commitment.
5. Are There Any Known Behavioral Issues?
Key Questions: Are there any litter box avoidance issues? Do they have a history of scratching furniture versus a scratching post? Are they a ‘door-dasher’?
Why it Matters: These are the top two reasons they are surrendered. Knowing about these issues beforehand allows you to be prepared with the right training and management strategies.
Part 2: The Questions to Ask Yourself (The Hardest Part)
1. Am I Truly Ready for the Financial Commitment?
The Checklist: A cat can live for 20 years. Therefore, this is a long-term contract. Can I afford two decades of high-quality food and litter? Furthermore, annual vet check-ups are non-negotiable. Specifically, dental cleanings can cost a small fortune. However, the real danger is the unexpected. In fact, a potential emergency vet bill can be shockingly expensive. For example, surgery for a swallowed string costs thousands. Consequently, you must have a savings fund or pet insurance. As a result, financial stability is a prerequisite for adoption.
2. What Kind of Relationship Am I Looking For?
The Reality Check: Consider whether you want a constant, cuddly companion. Specifically, do you want a cat in your lap every moment? If so, you are looking for a “velcro cat.” However, you might prefer space. Are you looking for a more independent, self-sufficient roommate? In this case, you want a cat who is happy to greet you. Yet, they doesn’t demand constant attention. Regardless, choosing one whose personality matches your social needs is crucial. In fact, a mismatch leads to frustration for both parties. Therefore, talk to shelter staff about each cat’s unique temperament.
3. Is My Home “Cat-Friendly”?
The Checklist: Is my home safe for a curious cat? Specifically, check your house plants immediately. In fact, lilies are highly toxic and fatal to cats. Therefore, you must remove them. Furthermore, do you have secure window screens? This is vital to prevent falls from high windows. Am I prepared to provide essential enrichment? Specifically, this includes scratching posts and vertical space. As a result, cat trees are necessities, not luxuries. Finally, am I committed to keeping this cat indoors-only? This decision significantly increases their safety and longevity.
4. Do I Have the Time for a Cat?
The Time Budget: While less demanding than dogs, it is important to remember a key fact. Cats are not decorations. Therefore, they require daily interaction. Specifically, you must engage them in active playtime. Furthermore, long-haired breeds require daily grooming. Otherwise, a cat left alone without stimulation becomes bored. Consequently, a bored cat is often a destructive cat. As a result, you might find your sofa shredded. So, set aside time every single day for your feline friend.
Part 3: Questions for the Shelter About Their Process
1. What is Your Adoption Process and Return Policy?
A Good Sign: A thorough adoption process with an application and a conversation is a sign of a responsible rescue.
The Safety Net: The most important policy is that you must return it to them if you are ever unable to keep it. This ensures it’s lifelong safety.
Sources
- Cornell Feline Health Center
https://www.vet.cornell.edu/departments-centers-and-institutes/cornell-feline-health-center/health-information/feline-health-topics/feline-leukemia-virus - FDA
https://www.fda.gov/animal-veterinary/animal-health-literacy/lovely-lilies-and-curious-cats-dangerous-combination - The Spruce Pets
https://www.thesprucepets.com/why-cats-scratch-furniture-555135 - International Cat Care
https://icatcare.org/advice/choosing-an-adult-cat/ - MSD Veterinary Manual
https://www.msdvetmanual.com/cat-owners/behavior-problems-of-cats/behavior-problems-of-cats
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